Bed, breakfast and a tasty cock!!!!!! There’s nothing like having breakfast in bed. And there’s nothing better than serving breakfast in bed than when the recipient is a hot man. Through some wise investments, an inheritance, and sheer determination, my dream of owning a bed and breakfast finally came to reality. Situated on a bluff area overlooking the Mississippi River, the Inn at Hillcrest had become my pride and joy with a gazebo, new pool and whirlpool, a tennis court and an exercise facility.

As 2008 slowly recedes out of view, we're looking back at the best in pop culture over the course of the year. Yesterday, we looked at music and today we're looking at the world of literature, be it fiction, non-fiction, or, in the case of our number one selection, graphic novels. While not all of our selections are gay, they all touch on the themes of that resonate deeply with the gay community: sexuality, family, public versus private identities. And hey, if you're bisexual, 2008 was the year to visit a book store.

Whenever I hopped into a cab in New York in the late 90s, I would hope that my seat belt announcement would be Eartha Kitt's. "Cats have nine lives, but you have only one", she'd say. Then with a slight purr, she'd add, "Buckle up for safety." For me, this was the height of urbanity—getting in a cab with someone at the end of the night, happily drunk, bundled up in scarves, sliding into the back and hearing Eartha express concern for your well-being.

Gay Dating TipsEveryone needs a little advice and this is Cupids look at ten top gay dating tips!

'Tis the season to make promises to yourself. Whether it's losing weight, taking up scuba diving or calling your mother, the new year is a time to resolve to do new things and be a better person. We've got the personal covered, but what about the gay community as a whole?2008 will be remembered as a big year for the gays—we won rights, then lost them and then caught the world's attention by making our voices heard

If you missed these best films, time to get caught up, and if you saw anything from the worst list, we feel your pain. When the credits started to roll, did you jump to your feet and applaud or storm the box office and demand your money back- In 2008 we had our hearts stolen by a robot and broken by a wrestler; they beat faster when a bat and a madman fought, and our sides ached with laughter when Hollywood stars got lost in the jungle. If you missed these best films of 2008, it's time to make a New Year's resolution to get caught up. If you saw these worst films of 2008, I feel your pain.

The UK Football Association is planning a new campaign to show homophobia the red card Homophobia has replaced racism as the taunt of choice among bigoted football fans. Now that overt racism is, thankfully, unacceptable and a disciplinary offence, head-bangers on the terraces have turned their perverted minds to homophobic chants instead.

Most men are afraid of commitment and sitting right there on the dreaded lists is also losing hair.And similar to facing their commitment issues, men come up with many excuses to hide it - ugly combovers, toupees, herbal creams that don't work, expensive hair replacement grafts and more. But here's news, boys - until you embrace the fact and accept that male baldness is something you have to live with at some point in your life, running away from the situation will only make the matter more obvious.

For a certain number of men in prison, sex is a terror. They form a class of usually young, usually white, usually "pretty" (or not-ugly) men of whom I'm an example, albeit, a fictitious one.It's always essential to be strong and manly, especially in prison. It's important to be tough and unafraid. In prison there are a lot of predators who want to have sex with me.

Rock Hudson....Hudson was Hollywood's archetypal closeted leading man: wooing Doris Day as the ultimate "manly man" on screen, all while concealing his gay relationships off screen. Hudson shocked his fans when he announced that he had Aids in July 1985. He died three months later.

It's time to stop drooling over those muscles in the Abercrombie ads and start developing some of your own. Remember whether you're a mesomorph, endomorph or ectomorph, the fact is that anybody can morph into a better body if he has the proper training techniques.

You can do it on the bus, at the office, at home or in a cab. It's a less stressful way to find out if he's interested. It's a hot way to keep him interested. And it's getting more popular all the time. It's also an easy way to get yourself into trouble...